Husband Factor Synonym
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wow rhonda, you hit the nail on the head. as a victim of DV myself, i tried so many times to let my marine boyfriend (well ex now) know that i can relate to what he is going through. he never believed that, this i know. yeah, being in a warzone with guns and killing is certainly different, however, when you live in fear daily of beatings, verbally, mentally, as well as physically, it wears you down. i have done a lot of work myself to try to nip this in the bud. i just recently started talking to my mother, which i am still shaky about, because she has no recollection of what she put me through when i was growing up, and my younger sister would always tell me that i was bitter and i needed to get over it.
I like your agentic theory and wonder if you have a short research paper on it with proposals for what you briefly lay out here. I wrote a Masters thesis using virtue ethics to say something very similar. The passivity of injury and "stress" can be incapacitating and I am hopeful we can think about this subject more deeply together. My work is also funded my my own experience in OIF as an army artilleryman as well as theologian training as a Christian.
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Thank you for your well written thoughts. When I was diagnosed with PTSD my first thought was "This is a condition of veterans of war" and I've grappled with guilt over how I could have experienced something as damaging as they had....surely I am making a mountain over a molehill. Your words struck a chord and it helps to know that there are others out there whose DV experiences caused PTSD. It helps lessen the guilt.
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I tell people who want to fully understand what I would consider fair and equitable treatment of us veterans of the 'war at home' that justice will be when the perpetrators of domestic violence are treated as rightly by society and the justice system as if they were any other criminal who would invade our homes and our lives and cause us harm. A stranger is held to a higher standard of justice than our fathers, husbands, parents; somehow, because it is a 'domestic' issue, it counts for less than if it were not.
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One important preventive strategy includes the funding of programs for the treatment of paraphilias in adolescents. According to one expert in the field, males in this age group have not been studied and are undertreated, yet it is known that paraphilias are usually established before age 18. Recognition of paraphilias in adolescents and treatment for those at risk would lower the risk of recidivism. A second important preventive approach is early recognition and appropriate treatment of people who have committed child abuse.
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People with exhibitionism disorder are at risk for lifetime employment problems if they acquire a police record. An attorney who specializes in employment law has pointed out that the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), enacted by Congress in 1990 to protect workers against discrimination on grounds of mental impairment or physical disability, does not protect persons with paraphilias. People with exhibitionism disorder were specifically excluded by Congress from the provisions of the ADA, along with voyeurs and persons with other sexual behavior disorders.
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That person who's betraying "what's right" could be a superior — or that person could be you. Maybe it's that you killed somebody or were ordered to kill. Or maybe it was something tragic that you could have stopped, but didn't. Guilt and shame are at the center of moral injury. And, as Dr. Shay describes it, so is a shrinking of what he calls "the moral and social horizon." When a person's moral horizon shrinks, he says, so do a person's ideals and attachments and ambitions.
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When I read the descriptions of the 'mothering' that is often required of the soldiers in combat, I was reminded of how my brother and I 'mothered' each other through the years of abuse; how my children 'mothered' me and themselves during our years of abuse and how the last thing we know how to do even now is 'mother' ourselves. I watch the subtleties of these atrocities continue to visit myself and the lives of my children. I know we are the 'walking wounded' who are making it look pretty good on the outside and not doing very well at all on the inside.
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As of 2002, there are no genes that have been associated with an increased risk of exhibitionism or other paraphilias. Such chromosomal abnormalities as Klinefelter's syndrome (where males have an extra X chromosome and are usually sterile) were at one time thought to be a risk factor for the development of paraphilias, but research has not yet proved a connection.
I have been blessed by a great counselor, Patsy F, with the VA. When the concept of moral injury was explained as above, it was as if a switch had been thrown. Finally, a clear understanding and explanation of what I had been going through. I deeply appreciate those who have researched and finally clearly explained what so many have been suffering. I know now that I did the best that I could, but I failed to protect the innocent none the less. I have lived with guilt and severe anxiety. I have not yet come to grips with it fully, but just knowing and understanding the concept has allowed me to begin to heal.
When I trained at the VA in chaplaincy I experienced this in my hospice veterans. Their moral injuries poured out as their normal life reflection process unraveled. As theirs did, my deceased dad, WWII secret of "friendly fire" where he mistakenly was told to kill his own soldier by his commander who did not like the soldier to be killed leaked out of my dad's memories in disconnected ways. I knew he would never link the truth for me because he was loyal to his military pledge as a sergeant Dad began electric shock treatments after the death of his mom.